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My way from corporate to role as home maker and now college life!!!

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As a child, I used to play games with my siblings and friends and used to be school teacher for them. Draping a shawl borrowed from my mother's wardrobe, Closing the room, I used to grab my mother's economics book and read it. I was just 7 years old then.  I used stand in front of my little brother or sometimes no one , I used to hold a pencil and teach an empty room - the subject of economics. At that time, I never had any ambitions. It was just 'teacher - teacher' game.  As I started growing up, my friends started showing keen interest in science stream as there  was IT boom in that period. My relatives all around were encouraging their children to take up either the field of medical or engineering. As this trend continued, so did the emergence of coaching classes in various forms. But I had different idea. My parents never coerced me in taking a particular specialization. They completely left it to me and this was which I am very much thankful to them. After compl...
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With love, to all parents. Parents are special.

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Hi Everyone,

This post is close to my heart. My parents and my In - laws are incredibly special to me. When I was a teenager, our school had various clubs and students were free to join whichever club they wanted. The club that I had joined had taken us on a trip to some park and then to an old age home. We were supposed to perform for them and spend time with them on that day. That day still holds good in memory. I can never forget those people who had so many stories to say about how they were thrown out of their homes by their children, and they did not even care to check on their well-being. Some old ladies were single mothers and had worked their entire lives so that they could provide good education, food, clothes, and all other comforts to their children. That day I had come home and hugged my parents and my grandmother and had shared the plight of the old age home with them. I had seen tears rolling down their eyes as well. I will never forget it my entire life.

Today I am bringing to you all an exceptionally beautiful movie – Shonar Pahar (2018), a Bengali film which gives us all this simple and straight message that no matter what parents are always and will always love us unconditionally but sometimes we as children misunderstand their constant display of concern towards us as nagging when in fact it is their love that they show towards us and only us. This movie portrays an innocent and beautiful friendship between a seven-year-old orphan kid and a seventy-year-old lady. This movie shows the value of relationships to us which we have probably forgotten in this rat race.

We owe our existence to our parents. They bring us to this world, teach us everything and then one fine day when we become independent is it right on our part to let them just live on their own simply because our lifestyle does not match with theirs??? They have lived a certain way of life for a very long time and asking them to change suddenly doesn’t happen so easily. Besides, it is on our part to make those adjustments, understand their feelings and let them be the way they are. After all, nobody wants to lead a lonely life in their old age.

There is a scene in the movie where the son goes in search of his mother to a police station and the cops show him into a room filled with old people who are abandoned by their children, left to fend for themselves in this big big world. The scene is so heart wrenching that anybody will cry looking at it. How can people so easily just leave their parents just because it is inconvenient to stay with them? It is impossible to imagine such a thing but sadly this happens. Sometimes we become mute spectators to such things being so helpless that we cannot do anything. We just say, “it is the story of another household”.

I hope after seeing the movie anybody who is harboring such an idea drop it because just put yourselves in their shoes. I cannot imagine my daughter just leaving me somewhere at some old age home saying she is unable to take care of me. As parents we will never leave our children anywhere. Then why, why children abandon their parents? Just a food for thought. 

That is it for today, I guess. Follow me on Koo App, facebook, comment here on my blog and also follow my blog and please send me your questions and suggestions. I am waiting to hear from all of you.

Love you All,

Namitha

 

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